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khwaqhishoon ke Jangal mein..

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Khwahishoon ke jangal mein
yoon bathakte rehne se

manzilien nahi miltien

kuch khizaaien essi hein
aa ke teher jaien…

phir kali nahi khlti

daastaan sunane se
khud pe muskurane se
vehshatien nahi mittien


ger koi bathak jaye inn

saraab raastoon mein
khizar  se milane ko
phir koi ghali nahi milti

habs ka koi mausam
dil mein jab utar aa
ye
tu usse mitane ko
phir saba nahi milti

ishq dil mein bas jaye ya..
kisi mein jagg jaye ye..
aagan muhabbat ki
phir kabhi nahi bujhti


zindagi nahi dikhti!

THIS IS LIFE……

When there is no friend,
When life is on the dead end,
When world is not a paradise,
When your confidence dies,
Tell yourself – Go on,
THIS IS LIFE!

When things don’t go right,
When there is no ray of light,
And its too hard to survive,
Tell yourself – Go on,
THIS IS LIFE!

When there is competition to face,
When you are lagging behind in the race,
When you’ve lost faith in God,
When you’re betrayed by a fraud,
Tell yourself – Go on,
THIS IS LIFE!


When others don’t respect you,
When you’re not amongst the admirable few,
When for a question, you can’t find a solution,
When all you’re sure about, is confusion,
Tell yourself – Go on,
THIS IS LIFE!

When your destination is miles apart,
When you don’t know where to start,
When all you see around is pain,
When your hardwork is in vain,
Tell yourself – Go on,
THIS IS LIFE!

Even though all this happens
just have faith in self & face the life
with smile,
things will surely change one day

because as said “”
THIS IS LIFE

Reasons Why You Love Your Sweet Heart

I can be myself when I am with you.
Your idea of romance is dim lights, soft music, and just the two of us.
Because you make me feel like, like, like I have never felt before.
I can tell you anything, and you won’t be shocked.
Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive .

You and me together, we can make magic.
We’re a perfect match.
Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling.
Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead.
You never give up on me, and that’s what keeps me going.

You are simply irresistible.
I love you because you bring the best out of me.
Your terrific sense of humor.
Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat.
You’re the one who holds the key to my heart.

You always say what I need to hear (You are perfect).
You have taught me the true meaning of love.
Love is, what you mean to me and you mean everything.
You are my theme for a dream.
I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.

When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.
Your love for me is a natural antidepressant.
I love to hear your voice.
Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.
Your love is an effective antidote to despair.

I love to wake up with you by my side…It makes my days better.
You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.
I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.
I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.
Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.

You mean the world to me.
I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care.
I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.
I love the way you patch up with me after a tumultuous fight.
And, ofcourse, your intelligence, ’cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me.

What I look for in a girl?

Contrary to popular assumptions, not all men are after sex when they are out approaching girls to build a relationship. In-fact for many men, physical intimacy is a very small part of a relationship. Just like the woman, we are looking for a partner with whom we can share our lives with, give birth to children and bring them up into good human beings.

Women today are highly mislead by mass media and think that all men care about is how they look. They spend a whole lot of money and time on fashion and make-up crazing for that zero size figure. What they forget is that the man of their dreams is not looking for any of this external beauty. He is more bothered about what lies inside.

When people fall in love, when they get attracted to each other, it is the soul that generates the attraction and not the body itself. This is why we feel attraction only towards some people and not to all. In a room full of women, a man will find himself getting attracted to only one girl. He will not find real attraction towards all girls in the room. That would be unnatural.

So girls, just chill! Don’t worry if you do not have a size zero. Don’t waste time thinking that you do not look as good as the other girls. Just look for that special someone and you will find him.

The Reasons I Love You

I love you because you make me happy
I love you because you make me feel safe and secure
I love your smile
I love the way you say my name
I love the look in your eyes when you tell me you love me
And how you laugh at me when I do something stupid, when others would put
me down.
I love the fact that when I’m around you I can be myself and not worry
about what you may think of me, because I know you love me for who I am.
No matter what my faults may be.
I love being able to wake up with you by my side… It makes my days
better
At night I love watching you sleep, hearing you take each breath, and
feeling your heart beat with the palm of my hand… reality hits that you
are not a dream YOU ARE MINE.
I love the way you wrap your arms around me and hold me really tight, like
there is no tomorrow
And I love the way I feel when your lips barely touch mine for a kiss, the
love and emotions that go through me at that moment are unexplainable.
I love your laugh
I love hearing your voice
I love that you get along with my family and friend, no matter how much
you dislike them, or who they are.
And hearing you tell me your stories, you could tell them to me a thousand
times, and I will never get tired of them, because they are a part of you.

But the main reason I love you is because…..

You are you!

Does Love Need Reason?

Does Love need a Reason……?

Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:

Lady : Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?

Man : I can t tell the reason.. but I really like you..

Lady : You can t even tell me the reason… how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?

Man : I really don t know the reason, but I can prove that I loveU.

Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend’s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!

Man : Ok..ok!!! Erm… because you are beautiful,

because your voice is sweet,

because you are caring,

because you are loving,

because you are thoughtful,

because of your smile,

because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man s answer.

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident
and went in comma.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the
content:

Darling,

Because of your sweet voice that I love you…

Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern that I like you..

Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile,

because of your every movements that I love you..

Now can you smile? Now can you move?

No, therefore I cannot love you…

If love needs a reason, like now,

There is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason? NO!

Therefore, I still love you…

101 reasons why I Love You

1. I can be myself when I’m with you.
2. You fill up my senses, like the mountains in spring time.
3. You love me even with all my faults.
4. You are so beautiful to me.
5. I don’t have to vacuum before you come over.

6. You’re never boring.
7. Even when I’m grumpy, you still like me.
8. You let me give you a detailed description of how I spent my day.
9. Your idea of romance is dim lights, soft music, and just the two of us.
10. We both know that together we can work out anything.

11. You never make fun of me, even when I look like a clown.
12. Because you make me feel like I’ve never felt before.
13. I can tell you anything and you won’t be shocked.
14. You never say, “Are you going to tell that story AGAIN?”
15. We can talk about everything or nothing–it’s always okay with you.

16. You’re the light in my life, you’re the inspiration.
17. When you hold me tight, everything becomes alright.
18. I love sharing rainbow walks with you.
19. You always seem to know when things aren’t going great.
20. Your undying faith is what keeps the flame of our love alive.

21. You never intimidate me.
22. You know how to bring a smile to my face.
23. You’re always on my side.
24. We can talk over the telephone for hours together even if I’ve seen you the day before.
25. You’re so dependable and trustworthy.

26. When I need to cry, you lend me a shoulder and a tissue.
27. When I’m with you, nothing else seems to matter.
28. ‘Coz a smile from you can chase away all the blues.
29. When you listen, I know you’re really listening and not just waiting for your turn to talk.
30. You and me together…we can make magic.

31. When you’re around, everything’s fun.
32. We’re a perfect match.
33. We both really can’t do without each other.
34. Thinking of you add a wonderful touch of love to my every day.
35. You’ve taught me the meaning of love and sharing. Our world is more complete because of it.

36. You understand me…even when I’m sobbing.
37. Every moment spent with you is one filled with fun.
38. Your idea of a big night out is just the two of us.
39. Your love gives me the feeling that the best is still ahead.
40. With you I feel, as if in a single lifetime, I have known the joy of a thousand years.

41. You at least pretend you’re going to do what I suggest.
42. You never give up on me and that’s what keeps me going.
43. You’re as helpful as therapy, but you never charge me for it.
44. You’re simply irresistible.
45. Sometimes you call just because you’re thinking about me.

46. I can feel it, in the warmth of your touch, ’cause it touches my heart and soul.
47. For your sensitivity and support.
48. I love your smile…I really do. =)
49. Your terrific sense of humor…you know how to make me laugh.
50. I love you because you bring out the best in me.

51. You never get mad at me…even when I drive you up the wall.
52. ‘Coz you’re amazing, dazzling, and extra nice.
53. You understand if I forget something worth remembering.
54. In the story of my life, the best chapters are filled with you.
55. You always know just how to spoil me.

56. You’re a good sport even when I’m not.
57. Every heartbeat belongs to you.
58. It’s in the way you look at me and in your warm embrace.
59. Every time I look at you my heart misses a beat.
60. Every moment spent with you is a moment I treasure.

61. You’re the one who holds the key to my heart.
62. I like sharing crazy times with you because you add the spice to my life.
63. When we’re together, time just comes to a halt.
64. You can read my innermost thoughts.
65. Your loving gaze is enough to carry me through a long day.

66. You bring to me joy beyond measure.
67. Your idea of fun is laughing really hard and playing practical jokes.
68. You never snore while I’m talking to you.
69. Honey, you’re that someone who makes happiness happen.
70. I feel so at ease in your arms.

71. Because of you, no matter what may come tomorrow, today my life is more complete.
72. Since the day you came into my life, everything’s perfect.
73. We share the right kind of love.
74. You always say what I need to hear.
75. All I need to do is look at you and….

76. You’re cool–no matter what the time, no matter what the place.
77. All the little things you do make such a big difference in my life.
78. I want to stay forever with you.
79. I can see my dreams come true in the ocean of your eyes.
80. You’ve taught me the meaning of love.

81. The softness of your voice is like satin on my soul.
82. You’re so cuddlesome.
83. I love all the ways you give.
84. I just can’t imagine being me without you.
85. You’re my anchor in life’s ocean and most of all, you’re my best friend.

86. You’re always on my mind. I just can’t do without you.
87. Just a touch…and I lose my heart all over again.
88. You’ve seen me at my worst and you still love me.
89. You’re so magnetic…I just keep coming back to you.
90. Love is what you mean to me…and you mean everything.

91. You are my theme for a dream.
92. You’re someone I can be goofy with.
93. I enjoy being with you.
94. You’d give up your favorite pastime to be with me.
95. I can ask you a dumb question without feeling dumb.

96. Whenever I need it most you’re there with your all-purpose hugs.
97. You excite me, delight me, ignite me.
98. You know all my secrets…and keep them.
99. You’re too hot to handle.
100. I’ve had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.

101. There are endless reasons why I love you but the most important is…darling, knowing you is loving you.

The Hidden Lives of Men

Why do men fall out of love? It’s rarely a simple issue of attraction, sex, or money trouble. In this provocative no-holds-barred guide, Michael French brings unparalleled insight into the male psyche and reveals why so many men feel trapped, unhappy, or unfulfilled, and what women can do about it.

Based on interviews with men from all ages and walks of life this grippingly honest book illustrates why, when it comes to relationships, so many men feel “outgunned and outmatched” by women. Discover:

  • The 4 relationship busters that lead couples to flounder and sink – the loss of intimacy / the quest for validation / the perfection impulse / the fading of attraction – and strategies for dealing with them head-on
  • Six key reasons why men fall out of love – from issues of identity, power, and fear to stereotypes about who they really are and what they want
  • The truth about men and (mis)communication – and ways for them to open up
  • Three questions a woman needs to ask a man before she becomes emotionally involved
  • The Relationship Audit – how couples can figure out what is driving them apart and find ways to mend their relationship

By finally bringing men’s true feelings to the surface, Michael French offers a dramatic new approach to understanding men and their hidden emotions. This guide illuminates the deeper reasons why men fall out of love and, more important, shows how relationships can be healed.